· Break down walls: To be BFF’s you must not hide anything. Best friends are best friends for a reason, because you can be exactly who you are around them and not care what they think, because they will accept you as you are, and love you for it. If you are too embarrassed to show your true colors around someone because you are afraid of being judged, then that person cannot and should not be your best friend. (For example: sharing the ugliest pictures that you could possibly find with that friend and laughing about it.)
· Flaunt your flaws: A best friend is someone who finds out the worst things about you, and uses those as the reasons to be friends with you. Your flaws are what make you YOU, so work it girl.
· Find common grounds: Having something in common is what makes you friends, typically if you have nothing in common with someone, your relationship will not work out. The way you know you have a best friend is if you have the most random things in common, such as the things you wouldn’t tell anybody, and when you finally tell that one person- they do that exact unique thing that you do.
· Secret code: In addition to having common grounds, you must also be able to understand your BFF when no one else does. That one look, word, or symbol that you and your partner in crime have that no one else would know, but it makes complete sense to you and ties you together with a “secret code”.
· Honesty and Trust: The main component of a best friendship. With any relationship it is impossible to be successful if you aren’t loyal and most important, trustworthy. If you cannot be loyal, or honest with someone- which means speaking your mind- and in addition you cannot trust someone to do the same, then you cannot be best friends.
This may not be the only way to be best friends, but it’s for sure the right way, and anyone without these basic qualities will never be considered “BFF’s”.
DAMN RIGHT.
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